I always thought that when X was pleased with Y.
And that when Y was pleased with X.
That would be the start.
I always thought that where there was chemistry flooding.
That would be awesome.
I always thought that when they had established compatibility, determined matters of intelligence and deen and they then shared similar aspirations, goals and dealt with matters amicably.
That would be amazing.
I always thought that when both had found comfort in one another.
That would make your eyes glimmer.
I always thought when X could provide 40 reasons in why Y is the one, then stop the list at his request as there were one too many reasons. And when she then broke that list down detailing why Y is the best for her and the vast number of qualities and attributes he brings with him.
That would make you greatful.
I always thought that when both X & Y had consulted Allah and he was pleased.
NOTHING could taint that.
I guess I was wrong.