I'm in the process of enquiring about someone who's been on the card for years. More to come on that after we make some progress!
This got me thinking - If this doesn't workout, where do I go from here?
How do girls pick guys?
Let me break it down a little. When you first see a girl you see how she's dressed. If she wears hijaab/jilbaab you get that insta-win feeling. If you find her mutually attractive. Another point. Based on these 2 preferences this is how most guys decide to go forward and enquire about them.
How else are we supposed to pick them? We go for the two factors most apparent to us when pursuing a wife.
Now how does this work for a girls picking a guy? Must he wear a jubba and have a beard the size of a fist? Well that's me off the cards.
I've noticed a common trend as of recent. I get a lot Asian girls making eye contact with me. Ya know . . the type to flirt/pick someone up. I feel embarrassed/shy, I can't maintain eye contact. No, I haven't got a chip on my shoulder and I don't think I'm 'it'. I'm just not what you perceive me to be.
I'm not hanging up my gloves yet, I just feel that if this falls prematurely (looking likely). I'll lose motivation for a while.
It's a sad lonely battle. What are us guys supposed to do?