Tell me about it. I was talking to a guy recently. After the big hurdles, I realized he was actually a really good guy and definitely worth giving it a shot. Out of all the guys I have spoken to, he seemed to meet most of my expectations. So finally when i decided to become serious about it, he told me he somehow started talking to two girls at the same time, and now he is confused. He knew it wasn't fair to either one of us, and he knew he had to pick one, except he didn't know us enough to pick, and we both sounded very similar at this level. He asked for some time to pray istekhara and then decide. I don't know what came over me, whether it was jealousy, insecurity, or pride...i called him up the next day and decided for him to pick the other girl, and only if it doesn't work out with her, then we can give it a try. This way I can't hold anything against him since I dont know who it was he was going to pick, and he gets a chance with both girls. Now I am wondering if I did the right thing letting him go so easily. He actually sounded really good. Allahu alam. I hate the process of having to kiss so many frogs in order to find one prince.
hmm... this is a tough question... I'm assuming she was a good person: pretty, strong in her faith mashallah...overall... good girl? I'm semi-right are't i? =.='
Is there a prize for the one with the right answer? :p
There was no mistake - you stand by every decision and isktikhara right? Although that good girl....
@ahlam My name is SI and I am a readaholic! :) I blame my employers for not providing me with enough of a challenge which means I'm always online - not good!!
Ummm...so I really shouldn't bother since I've only been reading since a couple months and haven't read through all the posts. But I'll take a shot, is it the one your mom really liked, you all went to umrah/hajj together...? And u let go because she was too late...? I dunno, I know I'm a fail!
Ooh....the good girl. The one who everyone liked but there was something that cropped up and you decided that if it was meant to happen, it would!
ReplyDeleteTell me about it. I was talking to a guy recently. After the big hurdles, I realized he was actually a really good guy and definitely worth giving it a shot. Out of all the guys I have spoken to, he seemed to meet most of my expectations. So finally when i decided to become serious about it, he told me he somehow started talking to two girls at the same time, and now he is confused. He knew it wasn't fair to either one of us, and he knew he had to pick one, except he didn't know us enough to pick, and we both sounded very similar at this level. He asked for some time to pray istekhara and then decide. I don't know what came over me, whether it was jealousy, insecurity, or pride...i called him up the next day and decided for him to pick the other girl, and only if it doesn't work out with her, then we can give it a try. This way I can't hold anything against him since I dont know who it was he was going to pick, and he gets a chance with both girls. Now I am wondering if I did the right thing letting him go so easily. He actually sounded really good. Allahu alam. I hate the process of having to kiss so many frogs in order to find one prince.
ReplyDeleteUh... was it doormat girl? looool no I'm kidding.
ReplyDeletehmm... this is a tough question... I'm assuming she was a good person: pretty, strong in her faith mashallah...overall... good girl? I'm semi-right are't i? =.='
Is there a prize for the one with the right answer? :p
ps. In my defense... I have not completely read your blog.
ReplyDeleteGoal: Will do that inshallah... :)
Sorry ,dont know the answer..bummer. But anything SI said, shes an avid reader!:)
ReplyDeleteHusna, right? I can't imagine who else it could be..unless this is a trick question!
ReplyDeleteThere was no mistake - you stand by every decision and isktikhara right? Although that good girl....
ReplyDelete@ahlam My name is SI and I am a readaholic! :)
I blame my employers for not providing me with enough of a challenge which means I'm always online - not good!!
Si - I dont know which one you're talking about?
ReplyDeleteThen it's not her. The one before the journalist....you found out something about her/family which was outside of your control?
ReplyDeleteUmmm...so I really shouldn't bother since I've only been reading since a couple months and haven't read through all the posts. But I'll take a shot, is it the one your mom really liked, you all went to umrah/hajj together...? And u let go because she was too late...? I dunno, I know I'm a fail!
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