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I agree with you to an exte...hijaabified.beauty - <br /><br />I agree with you to an extent when you say we don't choose who you fall in love with or when. But I think it depends. Like, I think people fall in love with people who have characteristics that they value. Like, if a person values beauty, or charm, or whatever, then they will fall in love with people who have those characteristics. but if they truly value things like modesty, and lowering of the gaze, and humility, and stuff like that, then they will fall in love with people who show those traits. If someone doesn't show those traits, or shows traits that you think are repulsive or immoral, then they won't fall in love with them, so I think you can control who you fall in love with to that extent.<br />Of course, a person can get fooled, and assume things about a person later to find out maybe they aren't so modest, or whatever. I think problems occur when people assume characteristics about another person without really knowing anything about them past the surface.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-15529796645061862992010-02-01T07:20:24.172+00:002010-02-01T07:20:24.172+00:00I speak from experience when I say you don't c...I speak from experience when I say you don't chose who you fall in love with or when you fall in love with them. However, I will say that the one way to prevent falling in love from happening prematurely is to keep it formal when getting to know the individual. That isn't to say that your meetings with this brother/sister should be stiff and boring. I read on someone's blog that if what you are going to say can be said in front of the girl's father without warranting a negative reaction then its probably safe thing to say. However, if it will get some sort of negative reaction from her father (if you imagine him present)..you should probably keep your mouth shut.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-80899179782163596942010-01-31T00:10:39.438+00:002010-01-31T00:10:39.438+00:00Salam,
Good post. I don't think it's wise...Salam,<br />Good post. I don't think it's wise to fall in love until you're married, if you can avoid it. Like, for whatever reason, if you can't or don't get married, like, if your parents don't agree, or if you find out the other person isn't really the kind of pious person you thought they were, you could get depressed really easily. Best not to fall in love, in my opinion, until you're absolutely sure this is the one, based on every other criteria that is important to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com