tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post2424538575505828268..comments2023-12-22T08:38:20.596+00:00Comments on Marriage & Islam: The Search Is On . .: My World Is No.2SoulSeekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17159283661469135108noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-84733461109218835792011-11-10T01:17:26.044+00:002011-11-10T01:17:26.044+00:00MashaAllah it's great to have friends to trave...MashaAllah it's great to have friends to travel with. :)single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-3035774224857093602011-11-09T17:08:18.219+00:002011-11-09T17:08:18.219+00:00lol yep your a kid :P
Im in my mid 20's now b...lol yep your a kid :P<br /><br />Im in my mid 20's now but when i was around your age I used to think I was ready to get married, very glad i didnt. I was always mature for my age but now i look back and I can see how much Ive grown as a person, my fiance is a very lucky guy :)<br /><br />Anon 2Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-40580196745617657852011-11-08T23:34:48.955+00:002011-11-08T23:34:48.955+00:00Soul seek... I have disagree on the part where you...Soul seek... I have disagree on the part where you said you "wasted a couple of years" <br /><br />You haven't wasted anything... in fact you have probably gained in my opinion. Experience, growth as person (maybe), perspectives, you have gained something thats not physically visual like a wife... perhaps in some sense personal growth and experience is better quality to have first. You never know.<br /><br />She feels like their behaviour is justified? That is twisted. hmm... well it is her family, and I don't know the dynamics of it of course but she should in my opinion talk to them or negotiate at least. She should have stood up for what she wanted. <br /><br />She shoulda, she coulda, but she didn't. I say her loss no offense. :) <br /><br />Good idea on the vacation. Everyone needs a break from life. LOL make sure to have fun! You need to relax, take a break and take a kit kat. LOL (bad joke, but chocolate is an amazing remedy. :P ) <br /><br />Also good luck on learning the Arabic inshallah. <br /><br />Speaking of Tasfir.......... ahem ahem.... T________T LOOOL... no I'm kidding. :p <br /><br />LOL haha go out and chill brutha! :) <br /><br />As-Salam Alaykum.xxcomplicationsxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17148453459558249371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-78218608064801079872011-11-08T21:08:03.598+00:002011-11-08T21:08:03.598+00:00Oh and check out this blog - he's so good!
ht...Oh and check out this blog - he's so good!<br /><br />http://islamicsunrays.comSInoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150686658810344054.post-43518392654498703432011-11-08T21:07:01.760+00:002011-11-08T21:07:01.760+00:00Firstly, how do you know any potential is telling ...Firstly, how do you know any potential is telling the truth? You don't. You just make an informed decision when talking to them and family etc...You don't really know what's happening behind closed doors. You just know what someone is telling you - sometimes they tell you things they think you want to hear....and if they are honest, then why would you tell a potential your personal family issues? To make you feel sorry for them? Because they are too honest? Because they are naive? Is that your match? Is that what you have been waiting for? Someone who can't stand firm in their decisions or can't make decisions? People are different. We don't really know each other...not REALLY, not even in our own families no matter how close you are. You just have to trust - but it doesn't mean the other person has to.....<br /><br />Then, after breaking down everything in your head - all the what ifs and whys, then you remember that Allah (swt) gave you a way out. Said this before - what we think is good, well, may not be so good. <br /><br />Sacrifice and commitment to Allah's (swt) orders - we forget that. Eid Ul Adha was about Prophet Ibrahim (AS) and sacrifice. Look how hard his test was? I'm not comparing us mere mortals but his love was unconditional and yet he was willing to sacrifice his beloved son. Why do we then feel the need to keep looking for answers for being rejected for love that is conditional from some people? Maybe, just maybe Allah (swt) wanted it to happen. To teach us lessons. To be grateful for what we have. To remind us of HIS existence. There may be no reason at all. What do we know. Nothing in comparison! <br /><br />Besides, when someone can't see a good thing when it's right in front of them, then those people aren't worth knowing in my honest opinion:D And to be fair to her, family is extremely important and would always come first so again it comes back to sacrifice - I mean , would you give up your family for anyone?? Be honest SS, if you had a situation like this, would you really, really go through with it? I'm not sure I could do it for someone I've just met compared to a lifetime of being with my family. The only thing that's probably a bit worrying is that if she really wanted it, she could have convinced her family. BUT again, it was meant to happen like this because Allah (swt) intended it to happen like this.<br /><br />Yep went abroad last week and came back feeling different. Change of scenery is good. Very good.<br /><br />I think you'll find implementing the Quran is even better than just learning it!<br /><br />Wow - managed to find my words again:DSInoreply@blogger.com